When he would fight back at all, she would begin sobbing and take off just to make him go after her. She would pitch fits out of no where to have a little bit of drama going at all times. She was very manipulative with emotions and sex. My fiance's ex-girlfriend was the same way. They show no remorse for the things they have done, and will oftentimes make things worse before they will allow them to get better. They are never wrong, and if they are, they will make you pay for it, as it IS your fault. Sociopaths are known for manipulation, callousness, and conflict while addressing victimization for themselves. I also just found out a few days ago she was denied a job due to what they labeled as "psychological unfitness." I'm not sure what it all means, but any answers or advice would help tremendously.thank you for taking the time to read such a long question.įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! I know that if she is then she is sick and can't help it, but I also know they are capable of terrible has made me a little worried. So my question is to anyone who has ever dealt with a sociopath or knows about them, does this sound like one to you? and if she is what should I do?.or is this all me? are my insecurities in the way and making me see things incorrectly?.I'm confused. I felt and feel like she intentionally tried to get on my mothers good side and ruin my Christmas by making me feel isolated and degraded (I may be wrong and/or insecure but it all just seemed so out of place). Later she came back with the food gave it to me and said "this plate is for your mom only" then told me merry christmas. Before she left my house she asked my mother if she wanted some home cooked food and because my mother is a very nice person she said yes. She was smiling, hugging and putting on a charm for my mother, but I could tell it was fake (like when she wanted something before she would always act really sweet and charming). So the week went by until Christmas day when she showed up unexpectedly at my house.
To shorten my question up a bit a week ago I lost my ability to hold my anger and words back and said some really bad and inappropriate things to her (called her "trash," "bad person" and a "piece of _ _ _ _") resulting in us breaking everything off (I am not proud of how I handled the situation but what's done is done).
I remember having a bad anxiety and asthma attack last year in which she never asked if I was ok, but rather, just watched me with no emotion like she was bored.almost like she wasn't aware that was having trouble.but she surely did. Many times this was done in public and in addition, she would not stop until I apologized for things I didn't even know why I should feel sorry for.
The problem is is that she wouldn't let go even breaking my skin at times. She also had a thing for pinching me really hard when I "annoyed" her. What I found was shocking, but I know I am not qualified to diagnose anyone let alone it is hard enough for a doctor to do the same. Anyway, I eventually started to read and educate myself a little on sociopaths in relationships. In return, I would push and push with gifts and favors because I felt maybe I'm really not doing enough.I really started to doubt myself as a person (still am at times because this all ended only a week ago) and have been in a state of confusion, guilt, anxiety and depression for more than a year.Ī short while ago a friend mentioned she may be a sociopath, but at the time, I didn't take what he was telling me too serious.I was just concerned about what can I do to make myself a better person for her. The issue I'm having is that she was often very cold, emotionless and always made it clear how I "don't do anything" for her. To start I have been dating a woman (until last weekend) who without a doubt has been using me for money, favors, sex etc.Looking back I realize everything I did for her was never appreciated.I have given her thousands of dollars, bought numerous gifts, taken her on vacations, been there for her in times of need, taken care and watched over her child and just, at least in my opinion, given everything of who I am and what I have away.I was in love with her, but never felt or shall I say, never really knew how she felt about me. My question now is am I dealing with a true sociopath? and what should I do? or is all this just me?.I'm starting to worry.
Sitemapįirst, to anyone who may read this I hope your holidays are going great.also want to thank everyone who answered my question last week regarding the same was very very helpful. Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!